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A participant role-plays a conversation with a woman while Vlad guides the practice

For men · In Bali and online

Relationship
practice with women

You +a model +a facilitator

Role-play dates with women, get honest feedback, and try again with a facilitator's support.

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01

You

Learn to meet women, flirt, and talk about what you want.

02

A female model

Takes part in the scene and shares how she feels interacting with you.

03

A facilitator

Helps you understand her response and try a different approach.

A relationship gym with five areas labeled on the floor: meeting, flirting, touch, intimacy, and relationships. In the center, a couple talks at a table with wine and candles. In the other areas, women wait for a participant, with empty seats beside them.

How a session works

A gym for dating and relationships

We choose a situation from your life. You practice with a woman, get feedback, and try again.

01

Choose a situation

Tell us about a recent date, a fear, or something you struggle with. Vlad chooses a scene, model, and exercises around what you want to work on.

02

Experience it with a woman

Interact as if you were on a date or already in bed: flirt, talk about your desires, and explore getting closer. Any touch is by mutual consent.

03

Reflect and try again

She shares her response. Vlad helps you understand what happened. You try a different approach and notice the difference.

You can pause at any time. Ask about her response, talk through an awkward moment, and return to the same scene.

Talk about what I need

Situations to practice

What would you like to practice?

Bring a situation from your life, an uncomfortable experience from the past, or a hypothetical scenario you want to prepare for.

Testimonials about working with Vlad

What changes
after practice

Testimonials have been shortened and edited with clients' consent.

★★★★★
“Practicing with models helped me stop acting confident. Now I meet women without trying to play the right role. I spend less time stuck in my head and feel more connected when we talk.”
Alexander PetrovApril 15, 2026
★★★★★
“Working with models, I learned to listen to a woman without planning my next move. I stopped searching for the ‘right’ words and trying to get a particular reaction out of every conversation.”
Daniel MMay 9, 2026
★★★★★
“Working with models taught me how to handle tension in conversation. Now I can get closer to women and feel like myself, instead of pretending to be confident.”
Marcus WilliamsMarch 3, 2026

Meet the facilitator who guides your practice

Vlad Muravyev, founder of Humanness.FM and facilitator

Your sessions are led by
Vlad Muravyev

I created Humanness.FM so men could practice connecting with women and get honest feedback.

15+years exploring relationships
between men and women

I studied with teachers of bodywork and tantra, attended retreats, and put different approaches to the test in my own life — through hundreds of dates and dozens of romantic experiences.

In a session, I help you notice where you lose your footing, hold back your desire, or try too hard to be liked. Together with the model, I offer feedback and suggest what to try in the next scene.

Talk to Vlad about a session

My experience

I hired 7 women
to be my
dating tutors

For years, I tried to impress women: I worked on my appearance, my career, and seduction techniques. On dates, I monitored the impression I was making. I found it hard to relax and feel close to someone.

Where I started

Learning to connect
from women themselves

I paid women to help me: I could try things, ask questions, and find out how they experienced me. I practiced every single situation that had confused or frustrated me in the past.

What helped

Getting more deeply
in touch with myself

After that practice, I realized I needed a deeper connection with myself. I began doing bodywork, exploring my emotions, developing my sensuality, and studying tantra. That led to my biggest breakthroughs in relationships with women.

Where it led

More mutual attraction.
More pleasure.

Now it is easier for me to find mutual attraction with a woman, and good dates happen much more often. I enjoy connection and intimacy more, and I am more honest with myself and with women about what I want. Now I help other men walk that path.

Vlad Muravyev · Ebook

Want to know more about my personal story and my approach?

Seduce the women you want. Get more pleasure from sex.

You are attracted to a beautiful woman. You want to flirt, touch, have sex — and feel her wanting you back. In this book, I share how to express attraction openly and let a connection develop into intimacy you both enjoy.

  • Show your desire in a way she can feel.Why explicit words may not turn her on — and how to let a woman feel what turns you on about her.
  • Move from meeting to sex and mutual pleasure.Invite intimacy, talk about what you want, and notice whether your desires align.
  • Have experiences you want to relive.Choose women and relationships that truly turn you on. Enjoy the flirting, the sex, and everything that unfolds between you.
or

One contact is enough. We will send the PDF in a separate message.

Why practice with models?

5models on the team
4 in Bali · 1 in Moscow

Women who truly love men, are deeply in touch with their bodies, emotions, and feelings, are highly self-aware, and can put their sensations into words. Each has her own personality and experience; many practice tantra and bodywork.

For every situation
in your love life

Want to meet new women or bring intimacy back to a long-term relationship? We tailor the practice to your life.

A man meets women at a bar in the evening

An active love life

More connections.
More memorable experiences.

  • Start conversations and show your interest more boldly.
  • Share beautiful experiences with different women.
  • Turn your collection of fantasies into a collection of fond memories.
A couple in a long-term relationship embraces at home

Long-term relationships and marriage

Bring back the spark.
Get closer to each other.

  • Bring flirting and desire back into everyday life.
  • Talk with your wife about fantasies and new experiences.
  • Rebuild intimacy after arguments or growing apart.
Four women at an evening gathering in Bali

A model chosen for you

Practice with a woman
you are attracted to

01

We choose a model

We consider your taste and what you want to work on. She is a beautiful, perceptive woman who is in touch with her body and can describe her emotions and sensations in detail.

02

Role-play a real situation

Practice starting a conversation, taking the lead on a date, and staying true to yourself as personal and sexual tension builds between you.

03

Get specific feedback

What happened to her interest? How did she experience your gaze, voice, and pace? We pause, work with how you are feeling, and repeat the scene.

Hear what women usually keep to themselves — and use that feedback on your very next try.

I want to practice with a model

A personal search

A woman
who matches your preferences

Want to practice with a woman who is a particular type? For an additional fee, I will find a model specifically for you, beyond our regular team.

Discuss a personal search
YOUR TYPESelected just for you

What attracts you?

  • Hair color
  • Body type
  • Height
  • Facial features
  • Temperament
  • Nationality
  • Clothing style
  • Communication style

Tell us what kind of women you like. We will discuss your preferences, the cost, and how long the search may take.

The search is charged separately
Women's headquarters: a woman hands over a folder marked TOP SECRET
TOP SECRET

All the secrets
of a woman's world

She will tell you what women never tell men

SECRETS LEAKED FROM WOMEN'S HEADQUARTERS!

Get all the inside knowledge

In a session, you can ask any questions about flirting, desire, and intimacy. The model will share her experience and tell you how she feels interacting with you.

What turns her on?

When does flirting turn into falling in love?

What does she fantasize about but never say out loud?

Ask your question

Ways to take part

In Bali and online

In Bali: a man and a woman in a red dress talk on a sofa, with Vlad in an armchair beside them

Meet in person

In person in Bali

You, the model, and the facilitator share the same space. Practice connecting while noticing voices, eye contact, movement, and the distance between you.

Ask about a session in Bali
A man talks to a woman on a video call

Over a video call

Online from anywhere

A live conversation with a model and a debrief with the facilitator. We choose situations you can practice over a video call.

Ask about an online session

Usually 2–2.5 hours: preparation → practice with a model → integration. We discuss the cost when you book.

About my approach

A first-person view of a date: a woman sits opposite a man as he mentally chooses his next line

What you say does not matter at all.What matters is HOW you say it.

Women do not feel close to a social robot

When you rehearse your next line, it is easy to miss what she is saying. You watch yourself and try to make an impression. The date starts to feel like an exam.

During a session, we notice that moment, pause the scene, and try again: listening, responding, and expressing your interest.

When you learn to feel a connection at heart level while also experiencing desire, you will be surprised by how different your experiences with women become.
Three women at a beach club in Bali

The foundations of my approach

Be present.
Open up. Feel connected.

I teach you to feel your body more deeply and express different sides of yourself — to create connection and attraction without a mask.

01

Presence

Be fully present in a conversation with a woman. Feel her, create connection and attraction, and let go of empty games and masks.

When this becomes natural, you no longer need to try to impress.
02

Desire

Show openly that you are attracted to a woman. Stop hiding your sexual interest and real desires behind the accommodating ‘nice guy’ role.

You have the right to feel and express your sexuality.
03

Connection with your body

Feel the deeper layers of your body and psyche: sexual energy in your pelvis, steadiness and resolve in your belly, warmth and openness in your heart. This is the language of bodywork at Humanness.FM.

Be 100% honest with yourself.

A philosophy of intimacy

Why Humanness.FM?

Humanness is the key to seduction and intimacy at the level of the soul.

Humanness is the ability to be moved.

Moved to tears, goosebumps, or warmth in your heart. By her gaze, the beauty of her soul, and the way she talks about things she holds dear. Let her touch you deeply — and allow yourself to touch her just as deeply. The way to a woman's heart begins with opening your own.

You can want her with your whole body, admire her tenderly, and speak of your attraction. Worship her, cry as you look into her soul, and want to fuck her — all at the same time.

My approach is about experiencing the moment with radical intensity when you connect with a woman. Being moved by the infinite beauty of her heart and your own, and expressing it, even without words. Bring sexual energy into that connection, and you deepen its sensuality, making it even more delicious and unforgettable.

Words, touches, and glances are empty in themselves — yet they can break a heart. Break it not with pain, but with an unbearable overflow of beautiful love. How? By filling them with humanness.

The purpose of my project is to help you remember what it feels like when your hearts resonate once again on the universal frequency of Humanness.FM — through deep, conscious practice with women.

Learn more about my approach

How to quickly create a real connection with a woman

A client's story

Andrew
Lithuania

Individual workIn person + online

Where he started

He went on dates. He did not feel close.

Andrew worked in investment banking. He went on dates but did not feel close to women or enjoy his relationships.

What we worked on

Learning to notice his sensations and desires.

We worked with bodily sensations and desires. Andrew learned to notice how he was feeling, stay engaged when he felt uncomfortable, and get closer to women.

What changed

More enjoyment in relationships.

Andrew says he began enjoying relationships more and feeling a sense of closeness. Women started messaging him first. He also found it easier to communicate at work.

A man and three women at an evening event
This could
be you

Freedom from the outcome

Show your interest, even before you know her answer

Practice flirting, invitations, and conversations about desire. Learn to notice her response and accept rejection without criticizing yourself.

More client testimonials

What it is like to work with Vlad

★★★★★
“I came in skeptical: I had tried advice before, and nothing changed. With Vlad and the models, we worked on emotions I could not handle under pressure. I learned to notice how I felt during conversations and manage the tension. Now I can get closer to women without pretending to be someone else. We addressed the part of the problem I had never worked on before.”
Marcus WilliamsMarch 3, 2026
★★★★★
“Practicing with models taught me to notice my fear and keep connecting. I stopped relying on dating scripts and trying to create a particular impression. Now I listen to the woman, stay in the conversation, and notice how she responds to me.”
Liam TApril 22, 2026
★★★★★
“For years, I tried to look confident. Working with models, emotions, and the body helped me feel more comfortable on dates. Now I say what I think and can focus on the woman in front of me. I stopped treating every date like an exam and tracking her reaction to every word. Those changes have stayed with me.”
Kevin NJune 7, 2026

Before your session

Questions
about the practice

What does ‘model’ mean here?

She is your practice partner: an attentive woman who helps you see yourself through a woman's eyes. With her, you can try things, ask questions, and immediately learn how she experiences your words, gaze, and touch.

Can I come with no experience? What if I am shy?

Yes. We can start with a simple conversation. If you feel nervous or do not know what to say, we will pause and work through that exact moment.

Is this a session or a date?

It is a session for practicing communication. Romance afterward and sex are not part of the format. Any move toward intimacy requires your partner's agreement; either participant can stop an exercise.

What situations can we work on?

An awkward pause on a recent date, flirting you could not keep going, a conversation about desires with your long-term partner, rejection, or reconnecting after an argument. You can also bring a hypothetical scenario: meeting for the first time, inviting her home, or talking about boundaries or fantasies.

How long is a session, and how much does it cost?

Usually 2–2.5 hours: 30 minutes to clarify what you want to work on and prepare, 1–1.5 hours with the model, then 30 minutes for integration — reflecting on the experience and how to apply it in your life. We will discuss the cost when you book.

Who this approach is for

This work is not for you if…

Here we work with depth, desire, self-respect, and the quality of your life.

  • You are looking for a quick trick or a ready-made script.This takes practice, feeling, and showing up honestly as yourself.
  • You want a set of lines for the perfect date.We work with the feelings and connection that allow your own words to emerge.
  • You are not ready to take responsibility for your part.This work is not built on blaming women, apps, or culture.
  • You want to watch content instead of practicing.We will work with your inner state and beliefs. There will be plenty of practice.

Ways to take part

A man and a woman talk at a table with two microphones in a podcast studio

An exclusive offer for men in Bali

3

spots for a free session

With a model and facilitator · at a studio in Canggu

We will explore your situation, role-play it with a woman, and give you feedback.

The session will be filmed

This offer is for men who are willing to practice in a podcast studio and agree to the recording and excerpts being used in Humanness.FM marketing materials.

Apply for a free session
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Group program

A retreat: flirting,
desire, intimacy

For men and women who want to meet people, express desire, and get closer more freely.

Bodywork, tantra, and psychological practices. Role-play situations from your life and receive feedback from your partners.

January 2027 · Bali. Venue to be confirmed.

Ask about the retreat

The next step

Talk about taking part
with Vlad

Tell us about your situation. Vlad will choose a model, exercises, and a format around what you want to work on.

What are you interested in?

Format

Practice with a model

Stop
chasing
women.Become a magnet
they are drawn to.

In Bali and online. Real practice to build the love life you want.

Start practicing